Danity Kane singer Aubrey O’Day opens up about ‘heartbreaking’ miscarriage
“When my baby is ready, he/she will come and forever be my grateful miracle.”
Two months after singer Aubrey O’Day announced she was expecting her first child, the Danity Kane singer has shared the devastating news she has miscarried.
Aubrey, an American singer and reality television personality, best known for being a member of the girl group Danity Kane spoke to E! News about her pregancy loss.
“I’m beyond heartbroken to announce that I’ve had a miscarriage. This isn’t my first pregnancy, but it is the first time I was mentally healthy and in a physically prepared place to care for another life.”
Singer Aubrey O’Day has suffered a devastating pregnancy loss.
The 39-year-old continued: “I’ve had moments where I’ve internalised what happened and blamed myself but luckily I realised there isn’t only one seat at the table.”
The Ex On The Beach reality star is hopeful she will become a mum one day in the future.
“When my baby is ready, he/she will come and forever be my grateful miracle.”
“I’ve had moments where I’ve internalised what happened and blamed myself…”
The singer felt it was important to be open about her loss so other women who have also gone through a miscarriage could feel supported.
“I want all the women out there in the world that have experienced this grief to feel all the love my soul has to offer, and more importantly remain reminded that we are here to support each other! So if you need someone to talk to, reach out to me on Instagram [@aubreyoday] and I will be your sounding board and someone you can confide in.
“Let’s value, appreciate, and have an immense amount of respect for all the moms out there, and the rest of us who will be unstoppable during our pursuit to becoming moms one day!” Aubrey continued.
“There are also so many children who need happy and healthy homes, so being a mother and a leader will never be something we can’t all have!”
Girl group, Danity Kane was put together by Diddy (Sean Combs) on his former MTV show Making The Band.
Since sharing her pregnancy loss, Aubrey says her Instagram DMs have been inundated with tales from women sharing their own personal stories of miscarriage and they words of support.
“I’m reading them all in tears,” she says.
On Monday, the US singer seemed to address her miscarriage in an Instagram post:
“I think that it’s important to let things happen, and stay ‘happened’. People change so you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they are right.. and sometimes things you want most fall apart so that better things can fall together.”
“Everything happens for a reason,’ she finished, “love u my lil one.”
While Aubrey never identified who the father of her child was, she did say it was “someone special”.
